Subconscious mind dating
Have a demeanor like you’re celebrating like it’s the end of Ocean’s Eleven: “I need nothing from you. But you do want to show women you at least have direction in your life. And you live life on the edge, challenging yourself to take the risks to get there. Sharing your goals, dreams, and passions is one way to convey this. Sharing these stories about how you overcame odds puts you in a positive light and builds feelings of attraction in her for you. So much of our masculinity is wrapped up in having direction, giving our light to the world, and taking the necessary risks to make it happen.
Of the five switches, the most important to trigger IN FIELD, like in a bar or other public gathering, is “Preselection.” It’s the equivalent of a big pair of tits for us. As always, more important than “getting” women is serving a higher purpose than yourself.
She’ll instantly feel a pang of curious attraction for you if she sees this. Have women around you is the easiest way to trigger this switch. This is the practice of “Preselection” and “Leader of Men.” 2. In fact, practice smiling to at least three strangers a day.
You have value for other women, so you must have value for her. If you don’t have girls to roll with, be talking to everyone in the bar or lounge. Women see this, and they want to be where the excitement is. This is the practice of “Willingness to emote.” If you want to take this step further, learn a musical instrument.
When you’re first starting out, get good at triggering these 5 attraction switches for at least 25 minutes.
25 minutes because that’s the time frame from opening a group to C1 or building comfort with her.
Third, it’s difficult to become aware of the programming that is unconscious.
It continues in comfort, in seduction, and after you have sex with her… In other words, don’t just demonstrate these traits. Being a “survivor.” The reason this “value” is valuable is because it’s a benefit to her.
You’re someone who can take care of her and protect her. Trigger these switches and you trigger a primal urge in her to have a masculine man in her life.
At first, incorporate these DHV “spikes” or triggers into the stories you tell and in your behavior. This isn’t something you do in a bar just to attract women.
But if you’re going to tell stories, tell them to the group, not to your target. At first, if you do say anything to her, neg her or banter with her. When you’re in comfort with her, obviously continue to incorporate these traits into your stories and behavior. One difference between the attract and comfort phase is let HER talk. Like I said at the beginning of all this, this is about becoming these traits so they naturally come across without you even having to think about it. Even if you’re not tall or the best looking guy or superrich or whatever, if you’ve got these 5 traits, you’ll turn her on… Okay, so after you open a set, the objective is to systematically trigger these attraction switches. At base we humans want two basic things: to survive and to replicate.