Most people think they are a catch, bring a lot to the table, talk about "not settling" etc, and are hyper focused on the other person being "good enough" without realizing a lot of the negative traits that THEY keep bringing to the table.
This scares the shit out of women because it feels controlling and possessive (those were often on the list too). And it's fine to state your needs in the relationship, and is a part of developing a healthy, high functioning relationship. I don't feel as though I need to type another three hundreds words to explain that if you're not generating income or working that you probably shouldn't be dating.
Here's what I HOPE should be the take away from this.