Dating what do man want
Taking action seems more appealing than lying wait but why would you want to work that hard to get a man?
Chill with the idea that dating is so complicated, and scary that we need to make it easy on men. The idea of letting a man pursue you might sound old-fashioned but consider this: if you’re taking the reins from the man then you’re missing out on a key part of his personality. The way he communicates with you, and romances you, and tries to impress you. If you aggressively pursue him then you run the risk of never seeing all sides of him. You are worth the effort it takes, and is required to date someone.
Theres is a difference between a man showing you interest, and a man that is investing in you.
If you want a relationship with a guy, there is a plan of action that you can take to make him yours.
A relationship built on insecurity will never last.
Gender roles tell us that men are the ones who should approach you, call you, ask you on a date, follow-up with you, and then ask you out again. But approaching a man, making the first move, flirting with him, or texting him first isn’t the same as pursuing. When you meet a man who is interested in dating you he will call you, he will ask you out, and he will take the lead.
When you think about letting a man pursue you, consider letting him take the lead when it makes sense for him to do so.
I want to make it clear about what pursue does and doesn’t mean.
With a little patience, and a lot of trust, you can easily find yourself in a healthy relationship.