Dating first call voicemail
When someone calls me on my i Phone 5, the call goes straight to voicemail the first time they call me.
Older women especially are going to be busy so you want to schedule ahead of time.
The first example, which most men seem to get stuck on, gives away all mystery and sends the wrong vibe: “I am pursuing you, I am interested in you, please get back to me, I’m like every other guy, now the ball is in your court.” In MY version, there is no vibe of needy pursuit, an ambiguous interest, no specific request, and no similarity to all the other pathetic messages she gets from guys. Usually if I have to call back, my message is even SHORTER and MORE laid back: “Hey it’s me.
It also keeps the control on my end because I don’t even ask her to call back, I vaguely state that I’ll try again “another time”. I’ll try again later.” Part of the killer aspect of this kind of voicemail is the creation of curiosity, but what really solidifies its effectiveness is the casual easy-going tone.
When girls hear this kind of voicemail from a guy they just met and whom they might be interested in (they DID give their number to him) and he keeps control of the schedule and vaguely states “another time”, they wonder “When? It also does not put the pressure on her to feel that by calling back she’s committing to something.
You can set up a meet with her AFTER she calls back or when you actually reach her, don’t do it on voicemail.Read through her profile again and list out a few things including: This is going to be your backup list in-case the conversation stalls.